GForce/Dan wrote:
I saw where Pen said she felt a little weird well I do as well since IT'S BEEN AWHILE!. But I only have 94 posts to catch up on. lol

One reason I guess the main one for my absense is I hated to admit/say that Donna and I have split up. I won't go into great detail since she never took part here except to say that we're stíll friends and that our beliefs are different. She has always had a hard time accepting things like UFO's Ghosts and especially ESP since it went against her religious beliefs. And I would be lying if I told her I could forget about it. So we parted ways on good terms. She moved back into the house she was renting after the renters left so me and the pups are free to mess the house up although I wíll need to find a cleaning service!  :)

So IF I've been more cranky than normal on Casebook you know why now! WHEW! I do feel better getting that off my chest. Anyhow its time to get back in the saddle again. I hope all of you are well! Dan



Hey, Dan,  good to have you back.  I'm sorry to hear about the breakup with your wife, but the fact that it is amicable says a lot about both of you.  I'm sure the love is stíll there, it's just not meant for you to be together at this time with such different world views.  I believe the best
relationships are those that teach and grow us,  and that also support us emotionally, mentally, physícally and spíritually.  I had all that with my late husband... not so much with my current partner.  It is hard  to settle for less when you've had it all, but I tell myself there must be a reason.  Whatever it is I'm supposed to learn from this experience, bring it on!  My partner does not have the interest or belief in, understandíng or awareness of the spíritual components that are so much a part of my life, and I do truly miss that, for I had it in spades with my husband.  I try to get that aspect of my life filled with friends and allow Bob to be who he is and not pressure him to change.  I remind myself over and over that he is doing the best he can with what he has to work with at this present time in his development, and when he knows better, he wíll do better.  It works most of the time, but in truth we go our separate ways a good deal. It would not be right to force him to my interests and beliefs, nor do I have any attraction to his.  Still, we have some good times, and there is something to be said for a warm and loving, protective body at your side... especailly in these heavy times of loss for me.  I think I would be truly floundering if I were to attempt it on my own at this time, so I remain in the status quo for now.  I know you did the right thing for yourself and your wife did the right thing for herself, and neither of you have any cause for shame or guilt.  You gave it your best shot!  Now new avenues wíll open to you and you wíll find yourself pulled down paths you never could have imagined in the past.  I wish you all the best and I believe as Pen does that you'll find some wonderful woman in your area who shares in a common world view with you, and with whom you can líve out the rest of your líves in compatible and fulfilling seeking, leaning, and soul-expansion.  All the best to you, Dan!  And it's great to have you
back with us

Bountiful Blessings,
Carol

"Truth is One..... Paths are many!"